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LOVE REPORT If you start picking a fight with someone you really like, it might not be because you want to end your relationship. Be careful, though, because if you're not careful, some nasty dynamics could ensure. If you just have a wee bone to pick, facing up to a matter of dispute can really improve the way you deal with one another. Try to discuss it without allowing it to escalate into a major falling out. If you let your rational side engage, this will be easier than it sounds. Try using compliments as a device for making your significant other more receptive to your perceptions. You'll feel rather volatile while you experience this influence, but the emotions you go through now will create healthy situations and eliminate restrictive ones. People you thought you could always count on might not seem to be there for you now. Keep in mind that your disappointment might be rooted more in your own misperception than it is in reality. You have to remember that this feeling is temporary before you make a permanent change you may regret later. Taking up with someone who's always on the road or otherwise emotionally unavailable might be your back-handed way of proving your own self-reliance.
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